Sexy Positions To Try This Christmas!

Christmas is a time for giving; whether you’re with somebody new or you’ve unwrapped that box a hundred times before, it’s time to shake things up a little. Christmas sex positions might not be an actual thing (unless you have a thing for Mrs Claus), but we always welcome another reason to have sex. Here’s some kinky festive positions to try: feel free to check this list twice!

How To Overcome Performance Anxiety!

Having sex is supposed to make us feel fulfilled, happy and close to our partners. But sometimes performance anxiety gets in the way of this. Performance anxiety has become one of the greatest obstacles in the bedroom; sexually and emotionally. Both sexes can experience it. Men may worry about getting it up or prematurely ejaculating. Women may be concerned with their body image or the fact they can’t reach orgasm. Sexual concerns and performance anxiety are common, so we need to start talking about it.

Are Fetishes Normal?

This is a more common question than you might think. Most people want to know that they fall within the sexually ‘normal’ spectrum, and that whatever is going through their mind when they’re fantasising is acceptable. The truth is, there’s no such thing as normal when it comes to sex; we are all different in our sexual desires and kinks. If everyone agrees, there’s plenty of communication and you are both safe, it doesn’t matter what you and your partner are into.

A Beginners Guide To Nipple Play

Nipples are often an overlooked source of pleasure that, when done correctly, can lead to sensational orgasms. Increasing sensitivity and delivering an intense natural high, there’s nothing quite like the sensations experienced during nipple play. Research shows that nipple stimulation is processed in the same region of the brain as when stimulating the vagina and clitoris – making it part of the holy trinity of female pleasure. Although nipple orgasms are shorter than genital orgasm, they offer greater intensity and supreme sexual sensations.

Beginners Guide to Kegel Exercises!

Why are kegel balls such a hit?

Kegel balls are designed to stimulate the vagina causing the surrounding muscles to contract. The muscles also tighten to keep the balls in place. The result? Stronger pelvic floor muscles, a tighter vagina, and improved continence. Also known as Ben Wa balls, Love Balls, and Jiggle Balls – these discreet toys contain small weighted balls on the inside that roll around as you move, producing tingles and pleasurable stimulation that will make you shudder with pleasure. So if you’re looking for an enjoyable pelvic floor workout, superior sex play and an enhanced libido, look no further.

A Guide To Bondage Furniture

For those who are looking to spice up their sex lives but aren’t quite sure how; why not try introducing some kinky furniture? A recent survey concluded that over 70% of the couples interviewed enjoyed introducing new props and toys to the bedroom and felt that new tools lead to a better and more varied sex life. Introducing bondage furniture to your love life will open up a world of new positions and unlimited fun. There’s a whole world of furniture and tools to explore, but you’ll need an inventive imagination to go with them!

A Guide to Kinky Sex Props

For those who are looking to spice up their sex lives but aren’t quite sure how; why not try using props in the bedroom? A recent survey concluded that over 70% of the couples interviewed enjoyed introducing new props and toys to the bedroom and felt that props lead to a better and more varied sex life. One of the many joys of using props is that you don’t have to spend lots of cash – many household items can be used. A little change can go a long way!

Choosing The Perfect Role Play Costume

Role play is about much more than indulging your long-held and unspoken fantasy about the that teacher who once gave you detention. What makes role-playing so attractive and exciting is that you and your partner get to be anyone you want, and as inhibitions slowly decrease you will begin discussing and exploring situations and practices that you might not normally broach. Role-play could be the kinky element that’s missing from what may otherwise be a very enriching sex life – so, why not give it a go?

BDSM Myth Inspired By the Fifty Shades Trilogy!

The ‘Fifty Shades Darker’ trailer was released earlier this week and has already been viewed 114 million times; dethroning ‘The Force Awakens’ as the most viewed trailer in first 24 hours. Whether you love it or hate it, you can’t deny that’s it a wildly popular series that has had a huge impact on the sex industry. What needs to be emphasised is that Fifty Shades is not an accurate picture of what BDSM is all about. Popular misconceptions have prevented many people from expanding their sexual repertoire – focusing on the abusive and dangerous aspects, and ignoring the sensual, playful and oh so naughty fun that can be had. We are here to change that. Here’s some of the most common BDSM myths – let’s see how they compare to the truth.