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A Beginners Guide To Ball Gags!

Ball gag

Although there are many different types of gags, ball gags are by far the most popular. They have featured in so many fetish scenes and films, it’s become a staple of BDSM. Ball gags can be intimidating at first, but after trying it out many couples find it adds an exciting edge to their dom and sub play.

Safety First

As with all kinks, there are things to keep in mind for safety’s sake. First of all, your sub won’t be able to speak when they’re wearing a ball gag, so you will need to find a new way for them to use their safeword. Non-verbal safe words can involve snapping fingers, having your sub hold a bell that they can ring when they want the scene to end or honking a bicycle horn. Communicate with your partner to find what’s best for you both, and double check that you are both aware of the sign/signal and that when it is given the session is stopped completely.

Paying attention to your partner’s safety is paramount, so avoid anything that could impair your judgement, such as alcohol or drugs. The same goes for you partner – alcohol numbs the senses and could result in serious injuries. As tempting as a few drinks may seem, skip the half bottle of wine and enjoy a sober and safe session instead. Avoid gagging your partner if they have a cold, an upset stomach, or are having difficulty breathing due to illness or an allergy. Finally, do not leave your gagged sub unattended at any time.

Choosing a Ball Gag

There are many different types of gags to choose from. Here are the most popular and commonly found gags:

Ball Gags – a basic ball gag is a spherical shaped gag which is placed in the mouth behind the teeth and then strapped into place behind the head. We recommend: Fetish Fantasy Series Blindfold Ball Gag Set (€ 23.08, kinky.ie).

Breathable Gags – perfect for beginners, there gags are hollow and can be found in either plastic, rubber or silicone. They are light weight, comfortable, and come with holes cut out to allow for easy breathing. We recommend: Fetish Fantasy Breathable Ball Gag (€ 23.08, kinky.ie).

Inflatable Gags – ball gags aren’t designed to fit everyone, so these are fully adjustable for a custom fit. These start of small and are pumped in your sub’s mouth to the desired size. We recommend: Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Ball Gag (€ 34.62, kinky.ie).

Ball gags come in all kinds of materials depending on how you plan to use it! Waterproof gags that are made from plastic, silicone or metal are perfect for watersports. These materials can also be sterilised between uses so they can be used on multiple submissives. Gags made from rubber, PVC, and leather are porous and should only be used on one person.

For those starting out, there’s the Fetish Fantasy Ball Gag Training System (€ 23.08, kinky.ie). This training system allows you to start with a small gag and gradually build your way up to the largest of the three balls. These are designed for maximum comfort during wear without forcing the mouth or jaw open too much. Each ball is also fitted with holes to make breathing easier; so it’ll put your partners’ mind at ease, while still teaching them the meaning of submission!

When using the ball gag – slide it in gently, giving your partner a moment to adjust before you secure the straps. If your partner complains that their jaw is aching, it means you’ll need something smaller. Once the ball is in, it won’t make your sub completely silent but they will be unable to talk, so you’ll need to pay extra attention to their body language to make sure they’re not in pain or distress. As mentioned previously, a signal should be established beforehand in case of emergency.

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