The majority of us engaged in some form of ‘doctors and nurses’ during childhood. For some of us, the sexual intrigue and excitement of medical play lives on into adulthood…
What is Medical Play?
There are many facets to medical play; from tame kink to the more advanced levels. Some forms involve an intimate examination, wherein the dominant partner performs ‘medical’ procedures on the submissive patient. There are a number of medical devices and medical fetish toys that can be used during these sessions from a doctor’s stethoscope to medical restraints to penis plugs, and more. Medical play can also include erotic toys such as pumps, latex gear, and bondage. More intrusive procedures may involve the acting out of an anesthesia fetish, needle play, or the insertion of urethral sounds.
Safety First
As with most elements of BDSM, always discuss and pick a safeword and double check that you are both aware of the word and that when it is said the session is stopped completely.
Medical fetishes can incorporate various BDSM elements, so ensure you’ve read up on the technique beforehand and are both well-prepared. Communicate and take note of your partners’ reactions and tailor your games and techniques to that. Paying attention to your partner’s safety is paramount, so avoid anything that could impair your judgement, such as alcohol or drugs. The same goes for you partner – alcohol numbs the senses and could result in serious injuries.
If you’re session includes elements of Cock and Ball Torture (CBT), the dominant partner should keep an eye on circulation – increased pressure in the area due to squeezing or clamping can result in cutting off circulation completely. It is quite normal to experience a dull ache in the testicles post-session, but this should not last for a prolonged period of time. If the pain persists, you feel continually nauseous, or you notice any swelling or blood spots underneath the skin – seek medical attention immediately.
Electro play is also a common component of medical play. The biggest risk of electro-stimulation is passing a current through the heart, so ensure that the toy is turned off before making connections as you could inadvertently pass a current through the chest or head. Also remove all body jewellery and piercings, as it is likely to get hot and damage the skin. Don’t use any electro play devices if you are pregnant, epileptic, have any heart problems, or have a pacemaker fitted.
Types of Medical Play
We’ve already touched on a couple of medical play practices – although there is no exclusive list, here are some forms of medical play.
Less Intrusive Procedures
1. Nipple play – clamps, suction cups, and weights. For beginners we recommend starting with suckers, such as Vacuum Twist Suckers (€ 23.37, kinky.ie).
2. Penis Pumps – these are a fun and inexpensive way to experiment with medical play. We recommend: the Enlargement Pump (€ 23.37, kinky.ie).
3. Chastity service – preventing access to the genitals is a sexiest form of perverted torture! Chastity cages are the most popular type of device due to their discreet, yet secure, design. The CB-6000 Male Chastity Device Kit (€ 233.81, kinky.ie) feature vented slots which allows for natural ventilation and prevents the build-up of bacteria.
4. Gentle medical procedures – shaving and waxing, dental examinations, heart-rate and temperature procedures, and blood pressure diagnosis can all be done with medical equipment that can be purchased online or at a pharmacy.
More Intrusive Procedures
1. Enemas, Douches, and Prostate Massagers – there are a variety of devices to choose from that come in a variety of shapes and for different experience levels, so there’s something for everyone. For medical play, we recommend handheld devices such as the Clean Stream Anal Douche Enema Bulb (€ 17.52, kinky.ie).
2. Strap Ons – a kinky BDSM addition that enforces the dominant partner’s power! The most popular is the two strap harness. This harness allows the wearer to simply step into the straps and pull them up around the waist. We recommend the So Real Strap-On (€ 23.37, kinky.ie).
3. CBT – there are many ways you can reach your CBT goals; from ball crushing to genital spanking to sensory play. So it’s worth thinking about what exactly you both want from the experience and what exactly would you both like to try. A flexible cockring, such as Julian’s Stud Ring (€ 5.79, kinky.ie), is great for those who are new to CBT – it plays with some basic ideas and sensations with very few risks.
4. Fisting and Fucking Machines – looking to open up a world of intense and euphoric pleasure? Look no further!
Intensive Procedures
1. Needle Play – piercing the cock and balls, nipples or scrotum.
2. Catheters and Urine Bags – this requires medical knowledge and should be carried out with someone else in the room.
3. Extreme Anal Play – Stretching of the anus, anal speculums, and large dildos. Do you have huge anal ambitions? The Pump Action Throbbing Dong (€ 23.37, kinky.ie) might be the perfect toy for you!
Comfort Zones
Before trying any form of medical play you should focus on communication. You should talk through the scene more than once and agree on safe words, what the outcome of the
scene is, and what to avoid.
If the procedure you’re looking for has some complex, or skilled, elements – needle play, handling medical complex medical equipment, extreme breath play – you need to take the time to familiarise yourself with the tools and practice in a low-pressure situation beforehand. Learning to perform physical skills in a hot and sexy scene could make the difference between a good scene and a trip to A&E.