Here at Kinky.ie, we realise that when most couples venture into our sexy world, they will need to tread very carefully. It is important that you start to stretch your boundaries very carefully as you will need to know where your partners, and your own limits are. In simple terms, your first kinky action won’t be getting the electric shock equipment out and lighting up the other person like the national grid.
This is why we are bringing you our ‘five light kinky sex tips guide’. We hope they come in useful for all you curious lovers out there.
Blindfolding
This is a great one to begin with. The one in the blindfold won’t be able to see the other person, but they will certainly be able to feel them. This gives a real sense of helplessness, but excitement also. It will help you venture into the domination realm, with one person being in control, with the other being at the mercy of the one in charge.
Role Play
Role play is another game that will help establish the grounds for domination and submission. Here you can get involved in situations such as doctor and patient, or teacher and schoolgirl/schoolboy. Another good thing about this is that both partners can be the one in charge. Consequently, you will get to know what role gets you the most excited
Stop Him Entering
This one will give the woman complete control. She needs to let the guy get on top of her, and when he thinks he is going to slide in, she then needs to close her legs up. As he struggles, she needs to hold firm, until she finally relents and lets him insider her. This really is exciting for both.
The Unexpected Blowjob
This is one for the ladies to do. Whilst he is sat down watching the TV, just drop to your knees and pleasure him there and then. All guys love a blowjob, and when he isn’t expecting one, it will be even better!
Tying up
Get a scarf and tie up your partners hands. This, like the blindfolding, will make the recipient feel rather helpless, but also stimulated. However, the reason you use the scarf is because it is easy to tear off if they are feeling uncomfortable. It is only when you are both happy in this kind of scenario that you can move onto more solid restraints.
In Closing
Kinky sex can be a lot of fun, but if you do it wrong at the start, then it can be ruined forever. Still, if you take these small steps, you may well be getting hotter or hornier sooner than you think. And even if you don’t, these tips will certainly spice your sex life up all by themselves!