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The Kinky Guide To Dildos!

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No matter how good your man is in bed, sometimes there’s nobody that can get you off better than you can. You know the exactly what you like; the pressure points, the spots, and angles. For those who are looking to experiment with toys, a dildo is perfect for beginners. This brief guide will highlight the most common types available on the market, how to use them correctly and how to take care of them.

Types of Dildos

Dildos are like people, they come in all sorts of shapes and sizes! Many different types of dildo can be found on the pages of Kinky.ie! You may want to experiment to discover which of these sex toys, is right for you. Most dildos are made from rubber; it’s inexpensive, easy to mould and is also non-porous, which makes it easy to clean. However dildos made from silicone, jelly, latex, and glass are also available. Each material has its pros and cons, but I recommend avoiding glass dildos. Glass can chip and crack easily, and (hopefully) no-one wants broken glass in their vagina.

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The variety of dildos available is endless, however we’ve highlighted the most common (and popular) shapes and types on the market. The ‘traditional’ dildo is usually made out of rubber, and are simply designed to be inserted into the vagina and gripped at the base. Some dildos may also double as vibrators. If you’re looking for something a little more realistic, there are dildos which are designed to look like penises. Some are designed with testicles at the base of the dildo, and a few of the swankier models can ‘ejaculate’ – squirting a liquid of your choice.

Curved dildos are specially designed to be curved so that women may stimulate their G-spot in the vagina, men can also use these as the shape stimulates their prostate gland rectally. Some dildos are specially designed to be strapped onto a person’s body or head. These are attached to a harness and allows your partner the freedom to use their hands, while still pleasuring you.

Using your Dildo

When it comes to using a dildo, the most important thing is to be as comfortable and relaxed as possible – tensing up will make the experience less enjoyable and could end up being quite uncomfortable. If you’re nervous, try rubbing the sensitive areas of your body like your thighs and nipples first – this should help you relax and get you in the mood for experimenting. Always begin by applying a lubricant to the entire length of the dildo and the area around your vagina: this will reduce the friction.

The Butterfly

This is the perfect position for beginners, as it is both comfortable and allows easy access. For this position you need to lie on your back (some like to place pillows under their hips for extra support), place your feet together and let your legs flop to the side. Start by holding the shaft firmly and slowly penetrating the opening of your vagina with the head of the dildo. Slide the head in and out, slowly penetrating deeper each time. It’s not a competition, so take as much as you feel comfortable with. When you’re ready, progress to faster, deeper thrusts especially as you begin towards the build up to climax. Most women will orgasm from clitoral stimulation more than vaginal stimulation – if you can’t quite get there, this position allows you to stimulate your clit at the same time. Double the fun!

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Twist and Shout

When you’re having sex, the penis doesn’t just go in and out. The grinding of hips and the motions of your bodies provides varied sensations and pressures against your vaginal walls. You can emulate this with your dildo; as you penetrate slowly twist your wrist. Experiment with different pressures, different directions and the amount of twist until you discover the pace that works best for you.

From Behind

This is a position to be used if your partner wants to get involved in the action (this can be very kinky!). Kneel on all floors (use a couple of cushions to save those knees) and get your partner to gently penetrate you from behind with a dildo, starting with slow strokes. This is a great way to let your partner know what you like and don’t like. Stay in control and verbally dictate the depth, angle and speed of penetration. He’ll enjoy watching you quiver with delight and is guaranteed to replicate those movement the next time you both get hot and heavy!

These techniques are only guidelines. At the end of the day it comes down to preference, so take the time to explore and play – you won’t regret it!

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