It’s the same thing every year – we make resolutions and vow to stick to them. Perhaps you follow through, perhaps you don’t. Why not shake things up a little this year? Instead of making the same old resolutions; plan to change your behaviour in the bedroom and commit to having better sex.
Here are a few resolutions you should consider adopting for 2015.
Be more spontaneous
Busy lives and long working hours have resulted in us being trapped in a routine. So, 2015 is the year to shake things up a little!
Do you remember those carefree teenage years, when you could have sex whenever and wherever you felt like? Well it’s about time you started coming on to your girl on a whim. Make a commitment to not just have sex with her impulsively, but to kiss and nibble her passionately, rub her shoulders and stroke her for no reason. Don’t let your sex life get stale – show your girl how much you want her and prepare yourself for more passionate and exciting sex.
Try new positions
We all love missionary and girl on top, but there are plenty more positions out there to try. From variations on the classics, to the kinkier positions that may require some flexibility and toys; there are plenty of sexy positions waiting to be tried. It’s time to start exploring.
Try new locations
Speaking of getting adventurous; why do most of us stick to the same old locations when it comes to sex? Sure, having sex on a bed is comfy and convenient, but 2015 is all about pushing the boundaries. Your home is full of potential sexy locations; the kitchen, dining room table, office chair, shower, staircase…and these are just the tip of the iceberg. Think of all the places you can try outside of the home. New locations can be exciting, wild and daring – embrace it and have a good time!
Talk about sex more
I mention this time and time again – communication is really important. Most couples avoid talking about sex, which is pretty sad. Do you know what turns your partner on? Really? Just because she’s groaning when you lick her nipples, doesn’t mean it’s her favourite thing in the world. It’s time to discuss what you like, what she likes, what you fantasise about, what she fantasies about, what she wants to try, why, and so forth. After all, how will either of you ever know how to keep the other happy if you don’t really know what makes them tick?
Get kinkier
Following on from the above point, talking dirty is a great way of turning the heat up in the bedroom. Many of us feel uncomfortable at the prospect of giving this a go, but remember, there are different levels of dirty talk. If you’re new to it, you’ll want to start small; describe your favourite fantasy, or talk your partner through foreplay – narrating what you plan on doing next – it’ll drive her wild!
Make 2015 the year when you’re going to explore the world of sex to discover exactly what it is that turns the two of you on. Try a variety of toys such as handcuffs and blindfolds in your foreplay. Experiment with foods, temperatures, and sensations to find what really gets you both in the mood. For those who are feeling a little more daring; try dress up/role play and act out some of those fantasies you’ve both been talking about. The possibilities are endless!
So there they are – some sexual resolutions to adopt this year and use for the rest of your life. Make this the year that you and your partner grow closer together by exploring what you both enjoy when it comes to the kinkier side of sex. Who knows what you’ll discover! Happy New Year!