A lot of the time here at Kinky.ie we cater for new kinky people. It always seems to be about getting new people into the basic form of kinky sex. But where oh where is the guide for the people who have done that and now what to move onto the next level?
This is why we are bringing you five expert tips to BDSM. We hope it comes in very useful for the naughtiest minds out there!
1) Tea Lights
Tea lights can be very useful in the bedroom. All you need to do is burn the wax and let it drip on to your partner.
Now before you even go that far, massage your partner with massage oil. This will make it easier for you to get the wax off their body afterwards, which is obviously very important.
If you use unscented candles, you will find that the wax melts at a cool temperature, which will mean the pain is a lot less than other alternatives.
If you want to increase the heat, go for different kinds of candles, but it is always best to start off slow before going hardcore.
2) Whipping
Whipping can be a lot of fun, as long as it is done in the right environment.
It is a good idea to get a tie up your partner, get a riding crop and then start hitting them. Do it softly at first and then go harder and harder. As it gets more intense, the excitement will grow.
You could even get dressed in leather if you fancy??
3) Strap on Sex
Not every guy will be up for this, but those who are are likely to enjoy it.
We all know that it is one of mother nature’s nasty jokes that she puts the guys G-Spot in a place where he is unlikely to be able to get to.
This is where strap-ons come in. Get one of the top quality strap-on’s from Kinky.ie. The woman can wear it and give the guy anal pleasure.
Obviously like any form of anal play, it is imperative that you use some sort of lubrication to help the strap on go into the anus without causing real damage up there.
4) Strangulation
Well, before I start, this is one that could go wrong rather fast if you are not experts in the world of BDSM. Make sure you are before thinking about this kind of stuff.
When oxygen is deprived during sex, it actually makes the orgasm better. Hence it is an idea to hold their throat, either with your hands or a scarf to stop them breathing easily when they are about to finish.
This truly will make your head spin!
5) Watch Your Partner and Someone Else Have Sex
Well this is extremely naughty, yet can be so much fun.
Let your partner have sex with someone that you both accept whilst you sit back and watch the show. It will be like your own porno movie, only with your partner in it!
Now this is one to only think about if you have real trust in the relationship. Make sure you talk about it before you venture down this road.
In Closing
Obviously since this is aimed at serious BDSM players I shouldn’t have to say this, but I will anyway. Safety is the key!
Make sure you discuss what you are wanting to do with you partner, and always use a safe word which brings the action to an end when one of you has hit their limit.
Sex is meant to be fun; not dangerous. Just remember to keep it that way.
We hope that came in useful. Let us know what you thought in the comments section below!