For those who are looking to spice up their sex lives, but aren’t quite sure how, why not try using props in the bedroom? A recent survey concluded that over 70% of the couples interviewed enjoyed introducing new props and toys to the bedroom, and felt that props lead to a better and more varied sex life. One of the many joys of using props is that you don’t have to spend lots of cash – many household items can be used. A little change can go a long way!
A Mirror
This may seem an unlikely prop, but try bringing a full length mirror into your room for some sexy visual action. Mirrors can be used in many different ways – try multiple mirrors, use different angles and different sizes. We generally love porn, so imagine how much of a turn on it will be watching yourselves in action.
Start by undressing each other in front of the mirror and watch the temperature rise. If your partner isn’t totally comfortable with the idea, try dimming the lights or turning them off completely and using lamps and candles. Figuring out a way you can both enjoy mirror(s) as a prop is part of the fun!
Pillows
Great sex involves the right angle – the angle of your erection and her pelvis determine exactly what hot spot you’ll hit and how great it’ll feel for you both. Pillows can be used for a variety of positions to help you penetrate at a deeper angle. To begin with, place one under you while your partner is on top or under her in the missionary position. You won’t be disappointed!
Once you are both comfortable with the deeper penetration, you can try more advanced positions. Place a few under her abdomen for her to lie over during doggie style – this is far more comfortable than being on hands and knees. This will also give you better access, a better angle and a better view. There’s really no reason why you shouldn’t add these to your sex routine.
Handcuffs
You had to have known this would be on the list! Leather handcuffs are a super kinky accessory that’s great for light bondage play. If you’re looking for something a little more heavy-duty, Heavy Metal Handcuffs(€12.56, kinky.ie) are lined with velvety-soft faux fur, so your partner will be comfortably constrained while you play.
Lingerie
Why not treat your partner to some daring lingerie? She’ll feel super sexy, and you get to enjoy watching her try it on. This is also a great way to subtly suggest some of your kinky fantasies (French maid’s outfit, anyone?). Not sure if your partner will go for something too wild? A pair of sexy stockings will spice things up, without pushing the boundaries too far.
In The Shower
If you’ve not yet gotten it on in the shower, you are really missing out! Get your girl to strip down to her underwear and gently spray her with warm water. Experiment with different pressures and temperature for added pleasure. It may feel amazing, but avoid aiming the spray of water directly into the vagina. This can wash away healthy flora and bacteria and lead to infections.
Desk Fan
Position a small desk fan that will blow cool ait at you both during sex. The cool stream of air against a patch of your hot skin will produce a surprising shivery feeling. Varied sensations are part of what makes sex so intense, so the more you experience at one time, the more exciting it will be for you both. For extra enjoyment, have the fan aiming at your bottom while you’re on top – this extra stimulation will really send you over the edge.
Hot and Cold Liquid
The combination of hot and cold is a well-loved combination. Take it in turn to sip a hot drink and go down on each other, so that you can feel the warmth of your tongues and mouths against each other’s skin. Then, suck on an ice cube to cool your mouth off. When you go down on each other again, the difference in temperature will drive you wild. Use what’s left of the ice cube to rub over the more sensitive areas, like the back of your neck and nipples for added enjoyment.