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The Top Ten Kinky Positions!

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Askmen recently did a survey, looking to find which positions hit the spot more than others. The survey polled 381 men and women, and the results were tallied up based on the number of votes for each position. We’d like to say we were surprised with the results — but the top ten showcases our favourites too!

10. Scissors

This position ticks all the right boxes; it allows deeper penetration than most other positions, while also letting both partners look and fondle each other. Watching your partner is a big part of the fun; “Men are turned on visually and this position allows for some serious visual stimulation,” says sexologist Dr. Sonjia.

9. T-Position

Never heard of it? Then you’re missing out!

To achieve the T-position is simple; get behind your partner while she lays down at a 90-degree angle. This is a relaxed position which allows comfort and deeper penetration. Women particularly love this position – why? “Women need to feel relaxed to experience optimal sexual pleasure and this is a great position for relaxing while coming,” says Dr. Sonjia. “In addition, he can go deep inside of her at a different angle than most other positions and touching a woman in an unusual angle makes the man “special” in her mind, which makes her feel closer to him.”

8. Cradle

This position has several merits; your partner gets to be in charge, you can try this position in various places around the house (it’s perfect in a chair), and it’s also very intimate. In fact, it’s one of the most intimate positions for both men and women – you can coordinate breathing so it’s in synch with each other, and you can look into each other’s eyes and kiss passionately during sex. There are few things more intimate than that!

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7. Spooning

Who doesn’t love a good spooning? It’s the perfect position for early morning sex, or when you’re in the mood for something lazy in the evening. Your girl is on her side, you’re around her and you both rock gently until you finish.

6. 69

This classic allows both partners to get intimate and is a sure way to get you both in the mood for intercourse. What’s great about the 69 is that it brings both man and woman intense pleasure: the taste, smell and sensations felt can often be more intimate than intercourse itself, because tastes and smells can be powerful aphrodisiacs.

5. Ankles Above Her Head

If you’re looking for a position with deep penetration, look no further. The missionary gets a kinky upgrade with this position! Your partner doesn’t have to be extremely fit or flexible for this position – you can use your shoulders to support her. Not only will it feel incredible, but women particularly enjoy this position as they still feel connected in a cuddle-like position.

It’s a win-win position!

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4. Reverse Cowgirl

This is a sexy, and often liberating position for women – not only are they in control, but they don’t have to worry how they look – so they can let go of their inhibitions and let loose! Dr. Sonjia adds that “It also alters the traditional placement of the penis, and by rocking forward and back, she can feel him touching different spots inside of her.” And why do men like it so much? The sensations, letting her take charge, the view…need I say more?

3. Missionary

Missionary often gets lumped with the title of the “most boring” position. It’s true, it’s a convenient position that becomes a big part of many couples sex-life. However, it’s a position that can easily be vamped with the aid of props and accessories; handcuffs, gags, anal plugs and so forth. Its versatility, and intimacy, is why it’s still a popular position.

2. Doggy Style

It’s kinky, adaptable (it can be done in many different ways and in many different locations), and it provides great penetration. Achieving an orgasm in the position is easy as the position allows the tip of the penis to rub along the g-spot, making the experience extremely orgasmic for her. From him, the depth and friction feels fantastic, and it’s also a visually stimulating position, which only adds to the pleasure!

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1. Girl on Top

Surprised? We’re not!

She gets the deepest penetration and has control over how deep, hard and fast she wants it. He gets the view and a chance to let her take charge; “Girl on top is intimate for a man because he is allowing her to take charge and being somewhat vulnerable. Nonverbal communication is intimate, and in this position, he can communicate by looking into her eyes and by using his hands to explore her body,” says Dr. Sonjia. “It’s basically an ‘I dare you’ situation, where a seductive look inspires a new rhythm and bringing his finger to her clitoris can cause an orgasm while he watches her ooze with pleasure.”

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