Five Ways Women Can Take Control in Bed

We all know that Kinky sex is becoming more and more popular as time goes by. What once was seen as a little strange is now part of the make up of every day couples sex lives.

One of the reasons for this is the fact that in certain situations, it gives women more control than they would traditionally have had in the bedroom.

Here, courtesy of Kinky.ie, is a list of five things that women can do to really show their man who is boss in the sack. Some you may know, but have you ever really tried them out? Here goes.

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1) Costume Sex

This can be great. The beauty of costume sex is that the one in the costume is usually in a position of authority. It doesn’t matter if its a nurse, police officer.or any other kind of uniform, it gives the lady that chance to make the first move and have complete control.

It is certainly a lot of fun.

2) Talk Dirty

This will really get the man going, especially if he is not used to it. The lady should tell him EXACTLY what she wants him to do to her. The dirtier the talk the better. This will certainly get him really revved up, and the results will be explosive.

3) Tie the Guy Up

This is a good one as it really does make sure he has no control whatsoever. Get his hands tied up to each of the top bed railings. You don’t need to make the restraints too tight, just enough to make sure he can’t move his hands. The woman can then let her hands roam his body, whilst he is unable to touch hers.

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4) Blindfold Him

This is another way the woman can take control in bed. By taking away his visual, the guy will have no idea whatsoever what the woman is about to do next. This can even be incorporated into the restraining game mentioned before.

5) Spanking

If you are new to spanking, you might not realise that it doesn’t have to be a case of the man having to bend over and get spanked by a some sort of Dominatrix. Spanking can become part of what you would consider ‘normal sex’.

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Whilst in the missionary position the lady can start to slapping the guys bottom. She should do it softly in the beginning, and then increase the power as he gets closer to the finish.

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So if you are a lady looking to take control in the bedroom, or a guy wanting to give his girlfriend a few not so subtle ideas, then you know exactly where to come.

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