Five Tips For Light Kinky Action

Here at Kinky.ie, we often get asked for tips on engaging in Kinky sex. As long standing experts in the erotic field, we are able to give advanced pointers to anyone who has a question.

However, we have recently been asked by many ladies how to do really light kinky stuff. One suspects that the girls who ask are only just getting involved in the kinky world, and don’t want to go straight to chaining up and beating with whips!

This is why Kinky.ie have put together five ways of getting started on that wonderful kinky journey.

Here we go.

1) Blindfold Your Partner

Why not get a tie and put it around their eyes? You can then lead them to another part of the house where you have never had sex before, and whilst you are doing that, you can keep full control.

2) Do a Lap-Dance

Put the guy onto onto a chair, and strip down to a thong. You can then dance and gyrate, at no point letting him touch you.

He is sure to find this really sexy.

3) Play Hard To Get

This is another one for the ladies. Let the guy push you back, but then keep your legs crossed until you say he can enter you.

The fact he has to hold off will drive him wild.

 

4) Be Spontaneous

Just drop to your knees and give your guy a blowjob. Don’t give him any hint or warning. Just do it!

5) Stop Him Having An Orgasm

Go down on him, or go on top of him, but tell him that he can’t climax until he has your permission. If he starts to get close, back off and then start again.

It will make the orgasm even better when he does finally blow

So there you go. Let us know if these tips come in useful!

A Look At Lubricants

Let’s face it; sex isn’t always as kinky or romantic as it’s portrayed in the movies. It can be uncoordinated, messy and sometimes a little uncomfortable. Lubricant is the quickest and easiest way to prevent any dryness, chafing or uncomfortable friction during sex. It can also help prolong your love-making sessions, and make your own masturbation more enjoyable. When it comes to choosing a lubricant, the variety of products is endless. A little confused? Let us help you! Continue reading

Anal Toys: A Guide

t’s true; when it comes to sex toys, women get a better selection than us guys. However, this doesn’t mean that there’s not plenty of toys for us to play with. There’s still a great variety of super sexy, super kinky toys for men to choose from. This guide will focus on the variety of anal toys that are available, and how they will rock your world. Anal sex toys are popular for one simple reason; because it feels fantastic. The sole purpose of these toys is to massage your prostate – so be prepared for a mind blowing orgasm!

Choosing The Right Toy

Anal toys are both enjoyable and easy to use. Nevertheless, there’s a few things to take into consideration before purchasing your first toy. Firstly, buy from a respected store and if possible, check the quality of the toy before purchasing. Choose a toy that is made from plastic or silicone, and avoid toys that are made from wood or glass at all costs. Anal toys are generally broader at the base to prevent it for being sucked too far into the rectum – keep this in mind when browsing, to avoid any nasty surprises later on.

Before you get to the checkout, make sure that you buy plenty of lube. The anus and rectum don’t lubricate on their own, so they need a little help. Lube will reduce friction and will make the experience far more pleasurable. There’s a variety of anal lubes available, but any lube will do the job. Just make sure you apply plenty of it before the fun begins.

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When it comes to anal toys, they can be broken down into four main categories; butt plugs, anal dildos, anal beads and anal vibrators. Each of these toys with stimulate the prostate directly or indirectly, so there’s no right or wrong toy for first time users. Simply choose which one takes your fancy!

Butt Plug

Butt plugs are specially designed for anal stimulate, with a tapered tip for easy insertion and typically a flared base for safety. Using a butt plug can add a new dimension of pleasure to both masturbation and sexual intercourse. What makes a butt plug so special? During the male orgasm, the sphincter contracts. A butt plug keeps the muscles open increasing the pressure, and increasing the intensity of the orgasm. Butt plugs are also great for beginners, as the tapered shape allows you to experiment with how much penetration you can take.

Anal Dildo

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Dildos are generally the most popular of the anal toys; this is due to their simplicity and the variety that’s available. When choosing your first dildo, go for one that is smooth, flexible and relatively small. Once you are comfortable with using one, you can start exploring the different textures and sizes that are available.

Anal Beads

Anal beads often get overlooked and are regarded as taboo. However, they are often the cheapest and easiest to use. Anal beads are made up of a series of graduating balls on a bendy chain; great for beginners who are unsure of how much they can take. When choosing your beads, look for a set with a flared base or a ring-pull which will make them easy to remove.

Anal Vibrator

Although vibrators are fun, I don’t recommend these to beginners. Anal is great, but we often have to build up to the level of penetration that a vibrator requires. Nevertheless, for those who are a little more experienced – the main attraction of a vibrator is that does all the hard work for you! Most come with different levels that regulate and adjust the vibrations, speeds and sometimes movement. Continue reading