BDSM – Not Quite 50 Shades of Grey

It’s finally happened, 50 Shades of Grey has hit the cinemas – and whether you love it or hate it, you can’t deny the impact it’s had on the sex industry. What needs to be emphasised is that much of what you see onscreen during a porn movie is fantasy; something the audience of 50 Shades of Grey should keep in mind. Here are a few things that we think are essential to safe and sexy BDSM play, but may have been overlooked in the 50 Shades: Continue reading

Edge Play – An Introduction

Edge play is a broad term that can mean a lot of things in the kink community. For some, it simply means that they enjoy the feel of a cold-metal edge against their skin, or the idea of removing wax from a naked body with a blade. However, there’s another understanding that has more to do with fear. Continue reading

BDSM Aftercare – A Kinky Guide

There are many guides currently available on various toys, techniques and positions all related to BDSM, but there’s very little on what happens when the fun is over. The first thing I’d like to highlight is; once a BDSM play scene has ended, it hasn’t really ended. The intimate and emotional connections will still be there, and so aftercare is important for everyone, even those who consider themselves ‘experts’ at BDSM play. Continue reading