Are Fetishes Normal?

“Am I sexually normal?”

This is a more common question than you might think. Most people want to know that they fall within the sexually ‘normal’ spectrum, and that whatever is going through their mind when they’re fantasising is acceptable. In all honesty, there really is no normal when it comes to sex; we are all different in our sexual desires and kinks. As long as there’s mutual consent, plenty of communication and you are both safe, it really doesn’t matter what gets you going. Continue reading

A Guide To Impact Play

Impact Play is a more extreme form of paddling or spanking, an intense pounding that is often done with the intent to cause deep tissue bruising. It consists of one person, known as the ‘bottom’, being struck by another person, known as the ‘top’. Due to its popularity, there are plenty of specialised implements available including; floggers, whips, rods, switches, fists, and hands. It is considered part of edge play due to the risk of serious damage if instruments are used incorrectly or without care. Continue reading

Extreme Sexual Domination

BDSM is two different things, which are often but not always combined; sensation play and power dynamics. If someone is getting tied up and spanked, and they are enjoying the feeling of that, that’s sensation play. If they get excited at the thought of being overpowered and disciplined, that’s the power dynamic. Domination can be a combination of both, depending on what you and your partner enjoy. Communicate your desires, and encourage your partner to do the same – this will help you both understand what it that you want from the experience. Continue reading

The Best Kinky Sex Props

For those who are looking to spice up their sex lives, but aren’t quite sure how, why not try using props in the bedroom? A recent survey concluded that over 70% of the couples interviewed enjoyed introducing new props and toys to the bedroom, and felt that props lead to a better and more varied sex life. One of the many joys of using props is that you don’t have to spend lots of cash – many household items can be used. A little change can go a long way! Continue reading