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A Beginner’s Guide to Urethral Play

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Ever wondered how amazing it would feel to stimulate both the inside and the outside of your penis at the same time? Well, we’ve got some good news for you.

Urethral play involves opening the urethra with a plug or probe, more commonly known as a urethral sound. The urethra is packed with highly-responsive nerve endings that deliver mind-blowing pleasure when stimulated. Some urethral toys are designed specifically for a fuller or stretched sensation, while others are longer to explore deeper nerve endings for an entirely new sensation. They can be used during masturbation, role-playing, medical games, and as part of BDSM play.

Safety First

Urethral play carries the risk of getting a UTI (Urinary Tract Infection), so ensure your toys are completely sterile before you use them. Toys that are safe to boil should be left in boiling water for 5-10 minutes. Other toys should be cleaned thoroughly with alcohol swabs or rub.

Don’t forget the lube! It’ll help your sound or plug glide into place comfortably without tugging or pulling at the skin.

As with all aspects of BDSM, if you experience a sharp pain, notice any discoloration or loss of sensation – stop immediately. It’s normal to experience some burning during urination following Urethral play, however if these sensations continue for more than 24 hours, seek medical attention. If you experience any discharge or heavy bleeding, seek medical attention immediately.

The Difference Between Plugs and Sounds

It’s important to understand the differences between urethral plugs and sounds. While they’re both designed to be inserted into the penis, they are suited for different types of play.

Penis Plugs

A penis plug is a short toy that is designed to be inserted into the first few inches of the urethra. Most plugs will not stay in the urethra once inserted, however some are suitable for prolonged wear. There are numerous kinds of penis plugs available including:

Solid plug – a complete piece of penis jewellery with no opening. The solid construction prevents the wearer from urination and ejaculation. Most, like the Mini Fucker Penis Plug (€20.66, kinky.ie) feature an easy removal hoop.

Through-Hole plug – a hollow plug that allows the wearer to ejaculate and urinate freely while wearing it.

Ridged plug – a plug for intermediate users. They feature waves, ridges, spiral threads, and other textures for added pleasure and excitement.

Tapered plug – similar to a butt plug it’s narrow at the top and gently graduates in size. Perfect for beginners and those looking for a gentle stretch.

Electro plug – electro stimulation sends waves of pleasure through your penis for sensation overload!

No matter which design you go for, a penis plug will increase sensitivity, prolong erections, and provide supreme sensations during play.

Urethral Sounds

In medicine, urethral sounds are a tool used for probing and dilating passages during medical examinations, however they can also be sued for sexual pleasure.

These toys are much longer than a penis plug, allowing the user to go deeper and stimulate areas of the body that are otherwise out of reach. They come in a variety of sizes, thickness, and materials – it’s important to do your research and choose the right size toy for your experience level.

Hegar – a slightly curved S shape with two different diameters on each end. The shape in anatomical, which makes it easy to insert and use. If you’re looking to try a urethral sound, this is the best choice for you.

Dittle – a straight rod that is loved by experts and novices alike. Some deliver shock therapy for an added kick, like the Fetish Fantasy Electro Sound (€57.41, kinky.ie).

Bullet or Rosebud – a thinner rod with a bullet shaped tip for stimulating the urethra. The Rosebud is perfect for beginners because they’re easy to insert and use, even if the penis is erect.

Van Buren – a long and thin J shaped probe that closely matches the path within a man’s urethral tract. The curved end is perfect for stimulating the prostate gland from inside the bladder.

Aftercare

All scenes, no matter what the focus is, should include responsible aftercare. Kink can be an intense experience that leaves you feeling exhausted, mentally and physically drained, and in need of some tenderness, and so aftercare is an expected standard of post-kink scenes and experiences. Aftercare doesn’t need to be overly sentimental or grand, it just needs to be an intentional display of appreciation and care that will ensure you and your partner return to an everyday state of mental, emotional, and physical steadiness. After urethral play it’s essential that you keep the area clean, so gently wash the penis. Rest and give yourself time and space to heal so that you’re ready for a repeat performance!

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