One of the world’s greatest mysteries to many women – why do men seem to enjoy facials so much? Many women have an immediate negative reaction, some find it gross, others find it degrading, and some are simply intimidated by it. In today’s society facials remain taboo and is often portrayed as something dirty and humiliating. However, for those looking to taste a bit of forbidden fruit or simply expand their sexual repertoire, it can be exciting, empowering and sexy.
Safety First
Any chemical, whether in the form of a liquid, dust, or vapour, can contact and enter the eye. Even semen can hurt when entering an eye because it can contain acid phosphatase and citric acid. A man’s sperm can also carry diseases and infections, which greatly increase the risk of bacterial and viral infections.
If it goes up your nose or in your mouth, don’t panic. Semen is not only completely harmless, but some studies indicate that its packed with benefits. A study by Leiden University Medical Centre in the Netherlands found that women who swallowed had lower rates of miscarriages, pre-eclampsia, and morning sickness during pregnancy. If that’s not reason enough; new research in the scientific community has revealed that ingestion of sperm can also combat depression and aid sleeping, due to hormones present in seminal fluids.
Getting Started
If you decide to give water sports a go, talk it through with your partner first and plan ahead. As with any fetish, I recommend setting up a safe word beforehand, so if either of you get uncomfortable you can call it and bring the scene to an end. Also discuss mess control, choose where you will be engaging in the activity, and make you sure you have a towel, plenty of tissues, and something to sip on nearby.
Start slowly – your anatomy provides more than a few options, so if you’re not ready to start with a hardcore facial, choose another place for your guy to finish instead. Advance at your own pace to a full-on-facial. You can start out by asking him to finish on your thighs, ass, stomach, or breasts – he’s going to be excited no matter where you suggest!
When it comes to having a facial, you should start off doing something else to stimulate each other first. Whether you decide to give him a blow job, or explore and share your pleasure with a kinky foreplay session – remember to take your time and have fun. As with most things, when you’re turned on you are more likely to enjoy a kinky experience. Otherwise you’re sitting, or kneeling, there and staring blankly at your guy for 20 minutes, while deciding what to have for breakfast in the morning.
While It’s Happening
Many women prefer to be warned by their before he comes – this is definitely something to bring up beforehand. If you’re happy with the possibility of semen in your mouth, keep it open. If that’s something you’d rather avoid, smiling will show your man that you’re enjoying what’s happening. Although we recommend closing your eyes when the time comes; watching your partner as he begins to close control is both incredibly sexy and surprisingly empowering.
Afterwards
It’s OK to laugh! Porn movies don’t show you the aftermath, which involves numerous towels, some possible awkwardness, and a hot shower. Take some time to re-connect with your partner, share a shower, cuddle, and talk it through. What did you both enjoy? What would you change? What would you like to further explore? There is no need to go too in-depth, but reflecting on your sexual experiences will allow you to work on, and improve your sex life.