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A Beginner’s Guide To Golden Showers

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To pee or not to pee? That is the question!

Golden showers are sex acts that involve urine. The technical term for a urine fetish is ‘urolagnia’, but few (if any) kinksters will refer to it by its medical name. It is more commonly called watersports, golden showers, or piss play, and has seen a surge in popularity since Donald Trump was accused of getting up to some watery shenanigans in a Moscow hotel room.

What’s the deal with Golden Showers?

Recreational urine play remains taboo and is often portrayed as something dirty and forbidden, but it can be exciting, empowering, and sexy for a variety of reasons. Firstly, it’s incredibly intimate. It is one of the kinkiest things you can do with your partner, and sharing an experience like that is something you will never forget. Some people associate watersports with humiliation, so they want to incorporate it into a hot BDSM scene. It has the potential for humiliation play, role play, adoration and more. Others just really get off on watching their partners wee, and find it horny to join in.

Beyond just urinating with, or on, each other, some piss play enthusiasts prefer drinking each other’s urine, or engaging in tease-and-denial games. For instance, one person is instructed to drink a bottle of water then hold their wee for as long as possible, while their partner does other sexy things to them.

Is Playing with Pee Safe?

Urine is a bodily waste and needs to be respected as such. As with many fetishes it is not risk-free, but the same can be said of many sexual practices. If you and your partner are careful, urine play is quite safe. One common misconception is that urine is sterile. Technically it’s true, making splashing and ingesting safe activities. However, the start of your ‘flow’ might contain bacteria that’s been hanging around the entrance to the urethra. So, if you want to drink it, start around mid-stream.

If you have open sores on your skin, certain STDs and infections could be spread to you through skin-to-urine contact. Getting tested regularly would put both of your minds at ease and keep you safe. In the unlikely event that you do get sick, book an appointment with your GP straight away. A doctor will be able to diagnose and prescribe the right medicine to flush the virus out of your system.

Aren’t Watersports Messy?

So, you’ve agreed that you want to give it a go, but where do you play? There is no doubt about it – watersports are messy. There is an accepted level of wetness that comes with sex but if you’re going to play with urine, you’re going to blow that out of the water. So unless you have the worst landlord of all time, you’ll probably want to confine your watersports sessions to the bathroom.

Discuss mess control beforehand and carefully select your location; a shower or bath tub is a good place to experiment with golden showers. All the pleasure of urine play, without the worries of cleaning up! An added bonus – if you don’t get off on urine, the shower quickly washes it all away!

Getting Started

As mentioned above, if you decide to give watersports a go, talk it through with your partner first and plan ahead. Start slowly – piss play isn’t for everyone, so try a few simple exercises first to help you decide if this is something you and your partner will enjoy. Try watching your partner urinate and vice versa. From there you can progress to the shower; take it in turns to urinate and hold your hands in each other’s stream. As you get more comfortable, lie in the bath and ask you partner to urinate over your legs, stomach, and so on.

Decided you want to swallow their pee? Get on your knees. It can be difficult to aim in the right way to get your piss in their mouth, so this might take some practice. Think of it a lot like a facial but with piss.

Don’t forget about aftercare and talking through the scene with your partner once it’s over. What did you both enjoy? What would you change? What would you like to further explore? There is no need to pick apart every single detail, but reflecting on your sexual experiences will allow you to work on and improve your sexy sessions.

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