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A Guide to Kinky Sex Props

Man behind woman in blindfold

For those who are looking to spice up their sex lives but aren’t quite sure how; why not try using props in the bedroom? A recent survey concluded that over 70% of the couples interviewed enjoyed introducing new props and toys to the bedroom and felt that props lead to a better and more varied sex life. One of the many joys of using props is that you don’t have to spend lots of cash – many household items can be used. A little change can go a long way!

Blindfold

Recent research has concluded that most men get turned on by what they see, which is why the percentage of men who enjoy voyeurism is almost three times more than that of women. On the other hand, women are most aroused by sensual touch. It’s the feeling of intimacy that gets women in the mood – a massage, gentle all over caressing, and the feeling of silk on the skin are just some examples. Introducing a blindfold to the bedroom is often a win-win situation. You get to see her in all her glory, and her senses are heightened, allowing her to focus on being intimately touched.

We recommend: Kitten Blindfold and G String Set (€ 15.90, kinky.ie)

Pillows

Great sex involves the right angle – the angle of your erection and her pelvis determine exactly what hot spot you’ll hit and how great it’ll feel for you both. Pillows can be used for a variety of positions to help you penetrate at a deeper angle. To begin with, place one under you while your partner is on top or under her in the missionary position. You won’t be disappointed!

Once you are both comfortable with the deeper penetration, you can try more advanced positions. Place a few under her abdomen for her to lie over during doggie style – this is far more comfortable than being on hands and knees. This will also give you better access, a better angle and a better view. There’s really no reason why you shouldn’t add these to your sex routine.

Handcuffs

You had to have known this would be on the list! Leather handcuffs are a super kinky accessory that’s great for light bondage play. If you’re looking for something a little more heavy-duty, fluffy handcuffs are lined with velvety-soft faux fur, so your partner will be comfortably constrained while you play.

We recommend: Furry Fun Cuffs (€ 14.21, kinky.ie) and SXY Cuffs (€ 26.13, kinky.ie).

Hot and Cold Liquid

The combination of hot and cold is a well-loved combination. Take it in turn to sip a hot drink and go down on each other, so that you can feel the warmth of your tongues and mouths against each other’s skin. Then, suck on an ice cube to cool your mouth off. When you go down on each other again, the difference in temperature will drive you wild. Use what’s left of the ice cube to rub over the more sensitive areas, like the back of your neck and nipples for added enjoyment.

Want to add a chill of ecstasy to your sex life? We recommend: ID Moments Cooling Pump (€ 7.94, kinky.ie).

Lingerie

Why not treat your partner to some daring lingerie? She’ll feel super sexy, and you get to enjoy watching her try it on. This is also a great way to subtly suggest some of your kinky fantasies (French maid’s outfit, anyone?). Not sure if your partner will go for something too wild? A pair of sexy stockings will spice things up, without pushing the boundaries too far.

We recommend: Sexy Sheer Thong Pantyhose (€ 9.08, kinky.ie) and Leopard Mesh Bustier (€ 22.67, kinky.ie).

In The Shower

If you’ve not yet gotten it on in the shower, you are really missing out! Get your girl to strip down to her underwear and gently spray her with warm water. Experiment with different pressures and temperature for added pleasure. It may feel amazing, but avoid aiming the spray of water directly into the vagina. This can wash away healthy flora and bacteria and lead to infections.

Cock Ring

The purpose of a cock ring is to trap this blood inside the penis and create a ‘super erection’ and ensure you remain rock solid for longer. Wearing a cock ring therefore delays ejaculation and the increased pressure will heighten sensitivity and a mind-blowingly-amazing orgasm. There are many different cock rings out there to choose from – they come in numerous shapes, sizes, and materials – so there’s plenty to experiment with!

We recommend: Tight Spot Twin Beaded Cock Ring (€ 5.63, kinky.ie) and Erection Maker Ring (€ 22.72, kinky.ie).

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