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Anal Toys: A Guide

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t’s true; when it comes to sex toys, women get a better selection than us guys. However, this doesn’t mean that there’s not plenty of toys for us to play with. There’s still a great variety of super sexy, super kinky toys for men to choose from. This guide will focus on the variety of anal toys that are available, and how they will rock your world. Anal sex toys are popular for one simple reason; because it feels fantastic. The sole purpose of these toys is to massage your prostate – so be prepared for a mind blowing orgasm!

Choosing The Right Toy

Anal toys are both enjoyable and easy to use. Nevertheless, there’s a few things to take into consideration before purchasing your first toy. Firstly, buy from a respected store and if possible, check the quality of the toy before purchasing. Choose a toy that is made from plastic or silicone, and avoid toys that are made from wood or glass at all costs. Anal toys are generally broader at the base to prevent it for being sucked too far into the rectum – keep this in mind when browsing, to avoid any nasty surprises later on.

Before you get to the checkout, make sure that you buy plenty of lube. The anus and rectum don’t lubricate on their own, so they need a little help. Lube will reduce friction and will make the experience far more pleasurable. There’s a variety of anal lubes available, but any lube will do the job. Just make sure you apply plenty of it before the fun begins.

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When it comes to anal toys, they can be broken down into four main categories; butt plugs, anal dildos, anal beads and anal vibrators. Each of these toys with stimulate the prostate directly or indirectly, so there’s no right or wrong toy for first time users. Simply choose which one takes your fancy!

Butt Plug

Butt plugs are specially designed for anal stimulate, with a tapered tip for easy insertion and typically a flared base for safety. Using a butt plug can add a new dimension of pleasure to both masturbation and sexual intercourse. What makes a butt plug so special? During the male orgasm, the sphincter contracts. A butt plug keeps the muscles open increasing the pressure, and increasing the intensity of the orgasm. Butt plugs are also great for beginners, as the tapered shape allows you to experiment with how much penetration you can take.

Anal Dildo

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Dildos are generally the most popular of the anal toys; this is due to their simplicity and the variety that’s available. When choosing your first dildo, go for one that is smooth, flexible and relatively small. Once you are comfortable with using one, you can start exploring the different textures and sizes that are available.

Anal Beads

Anal beads often get overlooked and are regarded as taboo. However, they are often the cheapest and easiest to use. Anal beads are made up of a series of graduating balls on a bendy chain; great for beginners who are unsure of how much they can take. When choosing your beads, look for a set with a flared base or a ring-pull which will make them easy to remove.

Anal Vibrator

Although vibrators are fun, I don’t recommend these to beginners. Anal is great, but we often have to build up to the level of penetration that a vibrator requires. Nevertheless, for those who are a little more experienced – the main attraction of a vibrator is that does all the hard work for you! Most come with different levels that regulate and adjust the vibrations, speeds and sometimes movement.

Double Dildo

Want a toy you can share with your partner? A double dildo is inserted into your anus and your partner’s vagina, or anus (depending on preference). There has to be a certain level of comfort and trust when it comes to introducing one of these kinky toys into the bedroom. However, you won’t regret it. They are very long, extremely flexible and a lot of fun. If you’re looking to spice things up, this is the toy for you!

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Hygiene and General Maintenance

This may sound obvious, but make sure you clean your anal toys thoroughly after every use. This is even more important if you share your toys with your partner (after all, most anal toys are unisex…and sharing is caring). There are products available that are marketed as sex toy cleaners, however, how soapy water will also do the trick.

You will enjoy years of pleasurable anal sex if you keep your toys clean and pack them away properly after use. Since anal toys are fun and feel wonderful, it’s likely that you’ll want to engage in it as often as possible! Have fun!

And remember, Kinky.ie has numerous anal toys for you to choose from. Take a look for yourself!

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