5 Common BDSM Myths – the Aftermath of the Fifty Shades Trilogy

Whether you love it or hate it, you can’t deny that it’s a wildly popular series that has had a huge impact on the sex industry. What needs to be emphasised is that Fifty Shades is not an accurate picture of what BDSM is all about. Popular misconceptions have prevented many people from expanding their sexual repertoire – focusing on the abusive and dangerous aspects, and ignoring the sensual, playful and oh so naughty fun that can be had. We are here to change that. Here’s some of the most common BDSM myths – let’s see how they compare to the truth. Continue reading

Do Alcohol and BDSM Mix?

Can you be tipsy and still engage kinkily?

Any kind of BDSM can be dangerous and can put you in a compromising position where serious damage can be done. This can occur mentally, physically, and psychologically. Therefore, safety needs to be your main priority always. Mixing alcohol and play is shunned upon by many BDSM social circles because not only does it loosen your inhibitions, but you lose the ability to control yourself, to sense pain, and you lose awareness of your surroundings. Continue reading

Silicone Toys – Myths vs Reality

Silicone is one of the safest materials used in Sex toy production. There is a fantastic variety of toys available, catering to all tastes and desires. You will find dildo’s, butt plugs, anal beads, vibrators, and male toys either made from or coated with silicone. They are often considered the superior sex toy material as they can feel as realistic as jelly and rubber toys, but are 100% skin safe, non-porous, and easy to clean. Continue reading

Alcohol and Kink

Can you have a few drinks and still engage in kink? Any kind of BDSM can be dangerous and can put you in a compromising position where serious damage can be done. This can occur mentally, physically, and psychologically.  For this reason, many of us are continually beating the drum of safety.  This is the highest order of business and needs to always be at the top of everyone’s list. Continue reading

Are Fetishes Normal?

This is a more common question than you might think. Most people want to know that they fall within the sexually ‘normal’ spectrum, and that whatever is going through their mind when they’re fantasising is acceptable. The truth is, there’s no such thing as normal when it comes to sex; we are all different in our sexual desires and kinks. If everyone agrees, there’s plenty of communication and you are both safe, it doesn’t matter what you and your partner are into. Continue reading

BDSM Myth Inspired By the Fifty Shades Trilogy!

The ‘Fifty Shades Darker’ trailer was released earlier this week and has already been viewed 114 million times; dethroning ‘The Force Awakens’ as the most viewed trailer in first 24 hours. Whether you love it or hate it, you can’t deny that’s it a wildly popular series that has had a huge impact on the sex industry. What needs to be emphasised is that Fifty Shades is not an accurate picture of what BDSM is all about. Popular misconceptions have prevented many people from expanding their sexual repertoire – focusing on the abusive and dangerous aspects, and ignoring the sensual, playful and oh so naughty fun that can be had. We are here to change that. Here’s some of the most common BDSM myths – let’s see how they compare to the truth. Continue reading

Dog Training – A Kinky Guide

Dog training is a kink that includes variations of traditional BDSM aspects, such as dominance and submission, ownership and control, role-play, and bondage. It involves the submissive being treated as an animal, in this case a dog that is completely dependent upon their owner. The dog will be fed, watered, played with, and trained by their Master/Mistress. Continue reading

Is a Dungeon Better than Home Kinky Play?

Vanilla sex is okay, but it can get very boring after a while. That is why so many of us look for some kinky play we can try at home, turning our bedrooms from simply a place to sleep into our own home dungeons. It is a lot of fun, and there are so many hot and kinky things that you can do at home that you won’t run out of ideas any time soon. If you’re anything like me, you’ll find so many fun things you are eager to try out that you’ll never be bored in bed again! However, while you might like having some kinky fun in the privacy of your own home, there are plenty of people out there who prefer visiting dungeons instead. Continue reading