If you haven’t already exited the page, cupping your balls, and sweating with fear – the chances are you have thought about, or are intrigued by, cock and ball torture (CBT). So what’s the appeal? Being the most sensitive part of the body, the area is full of nerve endings that release a wave of endorphins when stimulated. The effect is similar to that of codeine or morphine – an incredible rush and a ‘natural high’. The increased blood flow to the area makes it incredibly sensitive, enhancing your sexual experience. And these are just a couple of the reasons why many are drawn to a bit of CBT.
Safety First
As with most elements of BDSM, always discuss and pick a safeword that is both easy to remember and is something that’s unlikely to be said by accident. Double check that you are both aware of the word and that when it is said the session is stopped completely.
The biggest safety concern is circulation – increased pressure in the area can result in cutting off circulation completely. Keep an eye out for symptoms such as loss in sensation, loss of colour, or swelling. CBT is all about mixing pain and pleasure, but you must always be aware of your partner’s needs. Communicate and take note of your partners’ reactions and tailor your games and techniques to that. Paying attention to your partner’s safety is paramount, so avoid anything that could impair your judgement, such as alcohol or drugs. The same goes for you partner – alcohol numbs the senses and could result in serious injuries. As tempting as a few drinks may seem, skip the half bottle of wine and enjoy a sober and safe session instead.
It is quite normal to experience a dull ache in the testicles post-session, but this should not last for a prolonged period of time. If the pain persists, you feel continually nauseous, or you notice any swelling or blood spots underneath the skin – seek medical attention immediately.
CBT Types
If you decide you might like to give CBT a go, it’s worth thinking about what exactly you both want from the experience and what exactly would you both like to try. There are many ways you can reach your CBT goals, so we’ve listed some of the more common CBT types to give you an idea of how you can achieve your sexual goals.
Ball Busting
Ball busting is the acting of kicking, kneeing, or punching someone’s testicles. A wide range of toys have been developed to imitate the effects of ball busting exactly.
Ball Crushing
A ball crusher is designed to gradually squeeze the testicles with every turn of the screw – it’s up to the Dominant to decide how tight she wants to go and how much punishment she wants to inflict on her slave. Crushing can also be achieved without gadgets and toys; using feet, bare or not, will also do the trick!
Ball Stretching
If the name hasn’t given it away, ball stretching is the act of gradually applying pressure to the scrotum, which stretches and pulls it downwards and away from the body. If weights are a little too much, you can start by asking your partner to gently tug on your scrotum – tugging a little harder each time.
Genital Bondage
Genital Bondage can heighten sensitivity – so it is often mixed with other CBT types for added fun. Bondage can also hinder orgasms and erections, making it the perfect tool for teasing and a little torture.
Genital Spanking
When it comes to any form of BDSM, you can’t beat a good old fashioned spanking! Hands, floggers, and whips all work well – just don’t hit too hard.
Sensory Play
Sensory play can include temperature play, electro-play, and needle play. For beginners, placing ice or cool metal objects on and around the testicles will have your partner squirming with excitement. If you want to turn the heat up, drip wax or sprinkle hot liquids over those sensitive areas. Toys such as pinwheels or electro-stimulation devices will deliver shocking and pleasurable results.