Sex can get really boring. We don’t mean for it to, but over time we might find ourselves doing the same positions and the same things in bed over and over again in the hope that somehow something will magically change. The problem is that this never works. Instead, we have to do something differently, and sometimes the best way to spice things up in bed is to try out a new and kinky sex position to make things more exciting.
Think about the usual positions you adopt in bed. In my last relationship, it tended to be missionary or girl on top, with the occasional doggy-style thrown in. Sounds pretty dull, right? The fact is that these three positions tend to be the go-to ones for so many people when you jump in bed, which is why they become so boring. Predictable sex can be the worst, so if you want to try out a new fun but challenging sex position in the bedroom, we have four fantastic ones for you to choose from.
Fucking up against the wall
Almost everyone has had a fantasy where they walk up to the person they long to fuck, pick them up, and fuck them against the wall. Whether you want to be the strong one doing it or the one being lifted, it is something we all like to dream about.
In the movies, this looks like the easiest position in the world to get into. After all, the big, buff guy just lifts up the woman and that’s it. They are fucking with some lovely artistic light behind them to create a silhouette and at no point does the woman slip down the wall.
The problem is that there are two main problems when you try this position. The first is that the one doing the lifting has to be strong enough to do it and maintain it while they fuck. You might hit the gym regularly and think you’re buff enough to do it, but it requires a lot of strength to keep your partner in place.
Another issue with this position is that your partner will start slipping. They need to have a good grip on you, which they can achieve by wrapping their legs around you. Help them by keeping your hands under their ass and their back against the wall. This allows you to slide your cock deeper inside of them and will feel amazing to you both.
The frog
This position is a firm favourite for ladies everywhere because the angle of your cock inside their pussy is perfect. You’ll hit their g-spot and still get the chance to reach around and fondle their tits and clit, making them orgasm in no time at all.
To get into this position you’ll need to sit right on the edge of the bed, with your feet firmly planted on the floor and your arms out ready to support your partner.
She will then squat on top of you facing away and start to slowly lower herself onto your cock. It will feel amazing but it is challenging to get into for a number of reasons.
To begin with, you are right at the edge of the bed. You’ll need your arms ready to support her and possibly some soft things to land on in case she slips. It also requires strong leg muscles from her to perform the hopping up and down action required, so it might be best saving this position for the beginning of sex to kick things off before you get too tired.
The plough, otherwise known as the wheelbarrow
For men, the best sex positions involve them standing or on their knees. It gives them the perfect amount of space to thrust forward, and the plough position is one of the best for it.
The man stands at the edge of the bed and the woman will bend over in from of him, giving him a great view of her ass. As she leans on the bed, he will grab her at the very top of her legs, lifting her up so that her pussy is perfectly positioned for his cock to slide into.
This is another position that requires a lot of strength on the man’s part, and a great deal of patience as you start to build up a rhythm.
The pay off when you get it right is immense. It feels so intense as you get to watch their sexy ass as you pound it, and the woman can adjust the angle by lowering herself further to the bed or making herself higher. This means the position is perfect for you, no matter which way your cock bends, as you will always be hitting the right spots.
The crab
The crab position isn’t a difficult one to get into, but it can lead to a little bit of cramping if your legs are in the wrong position. That is what makes it challenging, as you’ll want to swap and try something else instead.
If you can stick with it though it is totally worth it. The man lies down on the bed with his legs straight. The woman then needs to sit on his cock with her legs crossed. Slowly, she can lean back and use her arms for support. The position of this will feel amazing, but her legs might give her pain. If that is the case, get her to straight her legs. It will give you a great view of her pussy and your cock sliding in there, which might be enough to send her over the edge.
If you are looking for the most fun but challenging sex positions, don’t go looking in the Kama Sutra. A lot of those ones require so much flexibility and strength that you might as well have the number for the emergency services on your phone ready to call.
Which is your favourite position out of the above? Do you like taking control by fucking them up against the wall, or do you like the view that the crab position gives you? It could be that you have another position you think is even better than the ones above! If so, use the comment box below to share your thoughts or head to the forum and join in the discussion there. We’d love to hear what you think!