Fancy a dildo but don’t want to leave your partner out of the fun? Well, you’ve come to the right place.
These dual-stimulating pleasure wands and dildos allow you to fill your love holes with simultaneous pleasure or share the naughty fun with your partner. Available in a variety of lengths, colours, shapes, and textures – there’s something for everyone.
Types of Dildo
When it comes to choosing the right double-ended dildo for you, it depends on whether you plan on going solo or if you want to share the double dong fun.
For solo play, you can choose from a flexible double-ended dildo, or a double penetrator dildo like the King Cock Ultra Realistic Double Penetrator Dildo with Suction Cup (€63.16, kinky.ie), which features twin shafts perfectly sized and positioned for tandem vaginal and anal play. The double penetrator also features a suction cup base that allows for an amazing hands-free ride.
Beginners might find a double-ended dildo is easier to get to grips with. The Doc Johnson Junior Double Header (€19.51, kinky.ie) is firm enough for easy insertion but bendable enough for versatile play. The smooth rounded heads are easy to insert for both vaginal and anal penetration. This type of dildo can also be used by couples, but you might want to opt for something slightly longer like the Basix 16” Double Dong (€26.40, kinky.ie) so there’s more than enough for both to enjoy without anyone being short-changed on satisfaction!
Getting Started
It’s important to moisten each end of your dildo with a water-based lube like PJUR Aqua (€11.47, kinky.ie) before starting. Many prefer to lie on their back, with a cushion or two under your hips for support. Insert one end of the dildo slowly and gently into your vagina or anus. When you feel comfortable, bend the other end of the dildo towards you to use as a handle and to guide the thrust of it.
If you’re wanting to experiment with double penetration, slowly insert the remaining end of the dildo into your vagina or anus. Maintain your grip and then begin thrusting. Be sure to use plenty of lube, as the anus does not generally produce copious amount of natural lubrication. Alternatively, you can bend the dildo into a ‘U’ shape and rest it against your bed or a solid surface with each end facing upwards. Squatting over it, gently guide one head into the anus and the other into the vagina. Bound up and down to enjoy simultaneous penetration.
Balance and positioning are the main issues when using a double-ended dildo with a partner, so experimentation is important. A good way to use this dildo is to be on all fours with the dildo placed in-between you, backing on to each end of the dildo, one at a time. This allows you to both take the dildo at your own pace. Remember, this is not a race, and being gentle, especially with anal penetration is encouraged.
If you want to maintain eye contact with your partner during penetration, sit facing each other then bring yourself on to your hands and feet. Glide your double dildo in-between you slowly. By intertwining your legs, you can both enjoy the full length of the dildo as you thrust forwards and back, whilst still maintaining that all important eye contact.