In the age of night shifts, school runs and overtime, the pressure is on to fit in as much as we can into as little time as possible, but sex is not somewhere to cut corners.
There are tools and toys available that can bring an added element of fun, playfulness, or exploration to the bedroom. If your life is devoid of sex toys, you are most definitely missing out! These are a great way to enhance your sex life and prevent it from becoming stale and predictable. From oils, to vibrators, to light bondage accessories, this list has something for everyone.
Blindfold
Blindfolding your partner will make for an intense experience. Restricting their sight will heighten their sense of touch, and they will only focus on what you’re doing and how great it feels. In addition, the feel of the material against the skin will only increase the sensory high.
We recommend: Tease and Please Padded Blindfold (€5.73, kinky.ie)
Cock Ring
A cock ring is placed around the base of the penis or scrotum, trapping blood inside the penis. This guarantees a rock hard erection from a stiff breeze. You stay harder for longer so that you and your partner can both achieve mind-blowing orgasms.
There is such a large variety of these on the market, and they are so affordable that it is easy to buy a few to experiment with. Some vibrate, some have adjustable speeds, and some have added dots and bumps for maximum stimulation.
We recommend: Screaming O Ringo (€4.02, kinky.ie) and The Screaming O Big Glow Vibrating Ring (€21.81, kinky.ie).
Bondage Tape
Want to try something new, but restricted by a small budget? Look no further. If you’ve not tried bondage yet, you are in for a treat! This tape is perfect for beginners who are trying out light bondage; as it gently restrains or cuffs your partner, but is easily and painlessly removed. You can also make some kinky outfits that are guaranteed to drive each other wild. Whether you want to restrain your partner or be restrained, these wonderfully versatile accessories are one of the best ways for couples to start engaging in kinky play.
We recommend: Bondage Tape (€10.91, kinky.ie).
Body Wand
A Body Wand makes a magical addition to your box of tricks. They’re discreet, super smooth, easy to use, and can be used in many ways; roll the wand up and down his penis while performing oral sex, use as part of clitoral stimulation, or on other sensitive areas of the body. The sky’s the limit!
We recommend: Blue Plug in Body Wand (€68.91, kinky.ie).
Lube
Lube adds a whole new dimension to the sensations you experience during sex and has the potential to increase the chances of you both climaxing. With a little extra lube, every touch and thrust will feel smoother and more pleasurable. Lube also allows you the freedom to try some moves and positions that require a little extra ‘help’. There are plenty of delicious flavoured lubes to try, and lubes designed to react with your body temperature to tingle and tease your senses. These are very affordable and are a lot of fun – a must-have item for every bedside table.
We recommend: Spunk Lube (€22.96, kinky.ie) and Slide (€3.43, kinky.ie).
Not everything in this list will appeal to you and your partner, but part of a what fosters a healthy sex life is stretching your comfort zone and trying something new. With an open-mind and a sense of naughty curiosity, you can both bring new toys to the bedroom that will definitely turn up the heat!