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Steamy Role Play Ideas to Try with Your Partner

young couple experimenting in a kinky role play session

Every sex life is susceptible to becoming repetitive or stagnant. Once the honeymoon period is over, maintaining the thrilling excitement that kept you both turned on at the start becomes increasingly difficult. Have you thought about introducing role play in the bedroom?

Role play doesn’t need to include the clichéd ‘French Maid’ or ‘Cops and Robbers’. There’s so much more to explore and you really don’t have to feel embarrassed about it. What makes role playing so attractive and exciting is that you and your partner get to be anyone you want in a fun and intimate setting that allows you to discuss and explore each other’s fantasies.

It Takes Two to Role Play

You may have been thinking about dressing up for a while, but your partner’s not always going to be on the same wavelength. Avoid turning up at her door dressed as policeman and attempting to handcuff her to a chair – this is not the kind of surprise that is likely to get her in the mood. Instead, encourage her to talk about her fantasies and suggest playing out some of them.

Go into sex shops together or shop online and let her pick out something for the two of you. Through including you both in the plan, you’ll make her feel like it was as much her idea as it was yours.

Sexy Role Play Scenarios

1) Dance Show

This can work both ways, depending on how confident you’re feeling! A private dance show doesn’t require much acting, which is perfect for those trying it for the first time. As far as props go, some sexy underwear is always fun and potentially some notes to stuff in her/your underwear.

2) Teacher Pupil

This won’t be everyone’s cup of tea, but mini-skirts and spanking can be very sexy. As with ‘Dance Show’, the roles are easily reversible. If your partner likes to be in control, she can be a disciplinarian headmistress who needs to punish the “naughty” schoolboy for his bad behaviour. If you want to turn it up a notch, she could make you write down and repeat those dirty sentences you were caught saying. Spanking is optional, but always fun!

This particular role play can be tailored to be as lighthearted or kinky as you and your partner desire.

3) Lingerie Photographer

You’re a lingerie photographer on a shoot with a top model, and you’ve been given the task of getting some of the sexiest shots possible. First, discuss whether you use a real camera or not. Some of us may feel nervous having actual pictures taken, and more nervous at the thought of the pictures getting into the wrong hands. You could always use a real camera (for the sake of authenticity) and then delete the pictures after viewing them together afterwards. It’s all a matter of preference.

During the shoot, provide prompts and suggest poses that you’d like her to make. That way, there’s less pressure on your partner to continually come up with sexy poses. Encourage her every step of the way to help her feel at ease, and to have props at hand in case she feels the need to cover certain areas of her body or simply wants the comfort of having other objects in the picture. Let your imagination run wild!

3) A Steamy Affair

You’re both married…but to other people. However, since you met each other you couldn’t shake the thought of this irresistible person. You knew you needed them in your life… or at the very least, in your bed.  Role Playing an affair adds a spicy risk element to your fun, and there’s the potential to maximize the kink with gags and restraints. Take it up a notch by only arranging your sordid liaison by text or email – you’ll be amazed how hot the sex is when it’s been arranged without a word spoken aloud!

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