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The A-Z of Sex – Part Three

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The internet has already opened us up to the crazy world of fetishes, but with new crazes developing regularly, we thought we’d compile an A-Z of the most common kinks out there. Whether you’re looking to expand your sexual knowledge, or your sexual repertoire, this list will give you a few tips and ideas to start you off.

R: Rimming

Rimming is an increasingly popular kink, which involves stimulate your partner’s anus with your mouth. This is great for those who aren’t quite ready for anal penetration, as it still stimulates all the right spots.

S: Sex Swings

A sex swing allows you twist your body in many weird and wonderful ways to find the most pleasing way to achieve satisfaction. Whether you’re into oral, vaginal or anal, a sex swing will deliver!

Fancy a bit of swinging? We recommend: Fetish Fantasy Door Swing (€ 42.82, kinky.ie)

T: Toys for Couples

Using a sex toy is a great way for a couple to add some sizzle to their sex life, but in a recent survey only forty percent of couples admitted to using toys during foreplay, and only thirty-five percent used toys during intercourse. For those who haven’t tried – you are missing out! From vibrators to handcuffs to butt plugs – there’s something for everyone.

If you’re both totally new to sex toys, an external sex toy will prove useful in helping you figure out what really gets you going. We recommend: Mini-Multi Wanachi 9 Function Multi-Speed Massager (€ 35.68, kinky.ie)

Consider yourself more of an expert? Why not try the Fetish Fantasy Spread Em Bar & Cuff Set (€ 118.96, kinky.ie)? This kinky set will put your partner exactly where you want them!

U: Uniforms

Who doesn’t love a man or woman in uniform? Role-playing is a chance for you and your partner to explore each other’s fantasies and be whoever you want. There’s no need to splash out on the whole uniform; buy the essentials and improvise with props at home. And remember, it’s ok to laugh – having fun is just as important as being sexy!
Not sure where to begin? Wet Look Thigh High Stockings (€ 23.78, kinky.ie) will spice up any outfit!

V: Voyeurism

According to recent research conducted at the Carolina Institute, one in three people enjoy watching sex or exposing themselves in public. Men are generally more voyeuristic than women, with 12% of men being aroused while watching sexual acts compared to only 4% of women. Voyeurism can range from watching a little foreplay to a full on orgy, depending on the individuals and their interest.

Why not get your partner to slowly undress for you? Or better still, if she’s feeling confident, ask her to masturbate as you watch her. It’ll make her feel good about herself, and watching your girl get herself all worked up will leave you desperate to help…

W: Whips

Whips are super sexy, but they can also be extremely dangerous when misused. For those new to flogging; avoid using thin whips such as bullwhips and tightly braided cats, and whips made of rubber, which are likely to cut. Instead opt for something short and thick that is less likely to cut the skin and work your way up. We recommend testing the whip on your hand or arm before purchasing – to get a feel for it.

X: Xtend It Kit

As well as ensuring you are always spot on, a penis extender will increase girth and length to show you really have the full package. Not only that, penis extenders are designed to keep your erection stronger for longer, so you can fully satisfy your partner.

Looking to slip into something a little more satisfying? The Xtend it Kit (€ 35.68, kinky.ie) is a DIY set that allows you to personalise the penis extension.

Y: Yaori

Yaoi is a type of anime, manga, or fan fiction, originating in Japan that focuses on male-on-male sexuality. The term comes from the Japanese phrase “Yama nashi, Ochi nashi, Imi nashi,” which translates as “no climax, no meaning, no point.” There are Yaoi films, fan fiction, artworks, magazines and more available; all depicting erotic and often super-kinky encounters.

Z: The Zen Pause

The Zen Pause sex position provides a quiet moment in the middle of the mattress madness. 

It can be found in the Karma Sutra, and is great for those looking to slow things down in the bedroom. When you and your partner are close to orgasm, stop what you’re doing and roll on your sides, both facing each other. Try to stay inside her as you do this. Then put the passion on a low simmer and gently rock back and forth – focusing more on running your hands through her hair and kissing her neck. Slowly build back up to a mind blowing orgasm.

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