The internet has already opened us up to the crazy world of fetishes, but with new crazes developing regularly, we thought we’d compile an A-Z of the most common kinks out there. Whether you’re looking to expand your sexual knowledge, or your sexual repertoire, this list will give you a few tips and ideas to start you off. Happy browsing!
H: Handcuffs
There’s a reason why 50 Shades of Grey has been so popular – bondage is hot! Restraining the wrists not only stops your naughty bottom from reaching for things they shouldn’t, but it also heightens all other sense for added pleasure. Cuff behind, in front, or to other objects/restrains – the choice is yours! If you’re using handcuffs for the first time; go for something comfortable that will provide all the excitement without the pain. We recommend: Furry Fun Cuffs (€ 15.00, kinky.ie).
I: Inflatable Butt Plugs
For those who have huge anal ambitions, why not give an inflatable butt plug a go? They offer all the delights that a larger butt plug has to offer, without the discomfort that may be felt upon insertion. These toys are designed for an easy insertion, followed by a satisfying stretching and fantastically full experience as the butt plug gradually inflates. If you are into anal play this is a must have toy!
Looking to stretch yourself to the limits? We recommend: COLT Expandable Butt Plug (€ 33.59, kinky.ie)
J: Japanese Rope Bondage
If you’re looking for something a little more elaborate than standard restrains, rope is the perfect choice. Japanese rope bondage is a style of BDSM that involves a three-strand twisted rope. Not only does it look the part, but it’s easy to use, durable, and will put a stop to any hope of escape!
Ready to get all tied up? We recommend: Japanese Bondage Rope (€ 16.79, kinky.ie).
K: Kegel
You know it’s important to exercise your muscles, right? There are exercises that can be done to help tighten your vagina and strengthen the pelvic floor muscles. While it is completely possible to do pelvic floor exercises without any type of equipment, most find that having Kegel balls makes it more enjoyable, easier to do, and in some cases, a highly orgasmic experience. Kegel Balls, such as Girly Giggle Balls (€ 10.79, kinky.ie) are inexpensive and easy to use. Like any other toy, we recommend using lube when inserting the balls.
L: Lube
This slippery stuff is the quickest and easiest way to prevent any dryness, chafing or uncomfortable friction during your kinky sessions. It can also boost sensations for both partners, and is an essential when it comes to anal penetration. With so many textures, sensations, and flavours available; this is an easy and affordable way to spice up your sex life.
M: Male Chastity
Chastity play is all about control – preventing access to the genitals for the purpose of sexual pleasure. What at first seems to be a form of perverted torture is actually an exciting and kinky way to spice up your sex life. The most popular chastity device is the Chastity Cage – it’s discreet, yet secure. Chastity cages such as the CB-6000 Giggle Balls (€ 239.97, kinky.ie) feature vented slots which allows for natural ventilation and prevents the build-up of bacteria.
N: Nipple Play
Nipple play is usually part of foreplay, but can certainly be the main event. Lots of women orgasm from nipple stimulation alone. So take your time stroking, sucking, tweaking, and toying with her nipples – she’ll thank you for it!
O: Orgasms
A recent study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine found that you’re more likely to climax if you spice things up in the bedroom. Getting kinky and exploring a variety of positions, locations, and toys will not only ensure that your sex life doesn’t get stuck in a routine, but it will also lead to bigger and better orgasms.
P: Pony Play
Pony play is the kinkiest type of role-play this side of a racecourse paddock. It involves dressing up, and/or imitating a pony, stallion, or unicorn. This kink draws on multiple elements of BDSM; from restraints and harnesses to domination and submission. An endless array of gags, bridles, saddles, whips, butt plugs with tails, and related items are available to those who like to horse around.