A lot of women own sex toys. For some it is because they aren’t being properly satisfied in bed, while others like to experiment and bring them into the bedroom. However, a lot of guys will see their girlfriend’s dildo and panic. They don’t know what to do with it and so the idea of using it during sex scares them.
Yet if you want to make your sex life even better, you absolutely should be learning the best ways to use a dildo in bed. No, you don’t have to use it on yourself (if you don’t want to), and you don’t have to use it as a replacement to your cock. If you know the right way to use it, you can turn what could be good sex into amazing and mind-blowing sex.
If you want to know the right ways to use as a dildo during sex, or if you are curious to find some new things to try out on your partner, keep reading for some of the best tips and tricks here on Kinky.
Tips on using dildos for women
Dildos might seem big and intimidating to some people. After all, you can get whopping 10 inchers that you might think you have to brace for before you use it, but they are so tempting to use and versatile that it is easy to see why they have become so popular in the bedroom. You can get a huge selection from them online that pretty much anything you were hoping to try you can do!
Women love using them in the bedroom, especially to tease their partner. A good way to do that is to show your partner just what you want to do to them. Start by slowly sliding your tongue up and down the shaft, letting them know just what you would do to their cock if you could get your lips on it. Tease them and drive them mad by demonstrating how you’d suck them off, while making it clear that you want them to beg you to do it before you’ll move on from the dildo to an actual cock.
Another great way to show your partner just what you want is to fuck it. Take that dildo and ride it, and while you do this describe to your partner how much you wish it was their cock and the dirty things that you would do to them.
This teasing will make them want to push you onto the bed, take the dildo out, and replace it with their cock. If you really get them going you might just have some of the most passionate and hard sex in your life, and you will love every minute of it!
Tips on using dildos for men
Men tend to be the most anxious about using dildos in the bedroom, mainly because they panic that using one will show their partner why the dildo is better than they are. This is particularly the case if the dildo is bigger than they are, because they think that their partner will no longer want to have sex with them if there is a dildo they can use instead.
That isn’t the case. There is nothing quite like the feel of a real cock, and honestly dildos and vibrators tend to be kept for when we are alone and you aren’t there to entertain us. That doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t learn how to use them on us in the bedroom though, as it will really impress us and any time we use them in the future we will be reminded of your skills and prowess as a lover.
During oral sex you can position yourself so that your mouth is on her clit and teasingly rub the dildo around her pussy. This will make her squirm and beg for you to slide it inside. Keep teasing her for as long as you can before slowly sliding it in. Don’t push it in all the way at first. Instead, put it into her cunt by about an inch before pulling out and teasing her again. She will want more and more and you can give it to her as she moans and groans.
When you are ready to move on, position your own cock close to the entrance of her pussy as you fuck her with the dildo. When she gets close to orgasm, pull the dildo out and replace it with your cock. She will love the warm feeling on your dick inside of her and this can push her over the edge.
DP fantasy
One of the best ways to use a dildo in the bedroom is to fulfil a fantasy, and for many women we love the idea of being filled and enjoying a threesome. However, finding a third person to join your little fun in the bedroom can be challenging, which is where the dildo is the perfect partner.
Get into the doggy style position and slowly slide your cock inside of her as you fuck her from behind. You can use your fingers to tease her clit as she pushes against you, and this will get her moaning and groaning as she comes on your cock. You can then lube yourself up and slowly ease your dick into her tight ass.
When she has gotten used to the feeling of your cock in her ass, you can then slowly slide the dildo into her pussy. This double penetration will have her screaming in orgasm in now time at all, and you can match your thrusts into her ass with those of the dildo. It will soon become a favourite position of hers and you will love the sight of her coming hard for you.
Do you enjoy using a dildo in the bedroom, or have you never dared try it before? What are you favourite things to do with one? Let us know by leaving a comment for us and share your dirty secrets.