The internet has already opened us up to the crazy world of fetishes, but with new crazes developing regularly, we thought we’d compile an A-Z of the most common kinks out there. Whether you’re looking to expand your sexual knowledge, or your sexual repertoire, this list will give you a few tips and ideas to start you off. Happy browsing!
H: Handcuffs
There’s a reason why 50 Shades of Grey has been so popular – bondage is hot! Whips and chains aren’t for everyone, put there’s something sexy about tying up your partner and having your wicked way with them. If you’re using handcuffs for the first time; go for something fluffy and soft (scarfs will also do) – it’ll provide all the excitement without the pain!!
I: Ice Cream
The idea of introducing food into the bedroom sounds great, but can be a little impractical (sticky and a bugger to clean up afterwards!). If only there was a way to enjoy sweet treats and still relish the benefits in the bedroom. Oh, wait….
Charlie Harry Francis, head honcho of experimental British food company ‘Lick Me I’m Delicious’ has created an ice cream that keeps you hard. Known as ‘The Arousal’; each ball contains 25mg of Viagra, and tastes like champagne. What more could you want? Unfortunately it is not on general sale right now, but watch this space.
J: Japanese Rope Bondage
You can probably figure it out from the name – this is a Japanese style of BDSM that involves a three-strand twisted rope. Pretty kinky, huh? There’s no need to string your girl upside down to get the benefit from this. Simply tying your partner’s hands behind her back and slowly nibbling your way down her body should do the trick.
K: Kinky.co.uk
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L: Lube
This slippery stuff is the quickest and easiest way to prevent any dryness, chafing or uncomfortable friction during wild and mind-blowing sex. It can also help prolong your love-making sessions, boosts sensation for both partners, and is an essential when it comes to anal penetration. With so many textures, sensations and flavours available; this is an easy and affordable way to spice up your sex life.
M: Mixophilia
What is mixophilia, I hear you ask? Well, if you like doing it in front of the mirror – then you’re into it. You may enjoy watching you and your partner getting it on, or simply watching yourself masturbate in the mirror. If you both feel comfortable enough, try masturbating in front of each other. Not only is it super sexy, but it might give you both a few new ideas or tips on how you can improve the way you please each other the next time you get hot and heavy.
N: Nipple Play
Nipple play is usually part of foreplay, but can certainly be the main event. Lots of women orgasm from nipple stimulation alone. So take your time stroking, liking, tweaking, and toying with her nipples – she’ll thank you for it!
O: Orgasms
A recent study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine found that you’re more likely to climax if you mix it up in the bedroom. In a nutshell, getting kinky and exploring a variety of positions, locations, and toys will lead to bigger and better orgasms.
P: Pony Play
Pony play is the kinkiest type of role-play this side of a racecourse paddock. It involves dressing up, and/or imitating a pony, stallion, or unicorn. This kink draws on multiple elements of BDSM; from restraints and harnesses to domination and submission.
Q: Quicksand
This kink certainly feeds into the damsel in distress role-play. As fun as it sounds; we don’t recommend going to your nearest park and jumping into sandpits. This is best played out using your imaginations and a lot of giggles (although some have been known to use porridge in bathtubs as a substitute…). A word of caution, there are some who get off on other peoples distress – keeping that in mind, only try this with those who want to jump to your rescue.