Chastity play is usually associated with abstinence, but it also incorporates power play, role play, and bondage. What at first seems to be a form of perverted torture is more of a sexual game. Typically, a sub is locked up in a device and teased so that they become so worked up that they’re unable to control their desire when they are finally freed.
If you are looking for an increase in sexual satisfaction, fabulous foreplay, or simply submissive servitude, chastity might be the perfect choice for you.
Types of Chastity Devices
There are three main types of chastity devices available. Each has its pros and cons, so take your time when choosing your device – you’ll thank us later!
Chastity Belt
As the name suggests, the device is attached to a belt for added security and comfort. A chastity belt is great for those partaking in prolonged chastity. However, due to the bulky nature of the device, it is more noticeable under clothing and does take a bit of getting used to. Maintaining good hygiene can also be a little difficult.
Chastity Cage
These are the most popular chastity devices due to their discreet, yet secure, design. Chastity cages like the CB-6000 (€229.69, kinky.ie) and Extreme Silicone Cock Blocker (€51.67, kinky.ie) feature vented slots which allows for natural ventilation and prevents the build-up of bacteria. Some devices have bars at the tip which can catch on foreskin or cause inflammation over prolonged period of time – check this before purchasing.
Generally, plastic and silicone cages are designed to be work for days or weeks on end without discomfort. Metal chastity cages are not specifically designed to be work for long period of time, however a wearer could be comfortable in one of these devices for up to 24 hours with practice. It depends on your needs, and what you and your partner want from chastity play.
Chastity Tube
If you are looking for something lightweight, chastity tubes may be the right toy for you. They are unobtrusive, can be worn underneath clothing discreetly, and often feature a slot at the end for urination. However, there can be a build-up of moisture in the device which can lead to sores and bad odours.
Getting Started
When your device arrives, spend a while breaking it in and getting accustomed to the sensation. Apply plenty of lube to the areas of the device that will touch the skin for optimum comfort. Silicone lubes like Pjur Bodyglide Silicone-Based Lube (€27.55, kinky.ie) are reliable, comfortable, and long-lasting, but cannot be used with silicone devices.
If you intend on wearing the chastity device for long period of time, make sure you can tolerate the device first by wearing it for 2-3 hours every day. Gradually increase the amount of time and make sure there are no problems of pinching or burns on the skin. Once you can wear comfortably for 5-7 days, you are ready to play.
What you do next is up to your Key Holder! You’ll experience the pleasure of being the sole orgasm giver, catering to her every need, while she denies you what you so desperately crave. When your wish is finally granted you will experience a rush of extreme pleasure like never before.
Hygiene
If the device is worn for a long period, it will be necessary to clean the penis and device regularly. If the device has slots or holes, it can be done without opening the chastity device – a small amount of soap and a blast of warm shower water in the device will be enough. The most important thing is making sure the penis stays dry. Cotton buds will usually do the trick. Some people use a hair dryer, but keep in mind if the device is made of metal it could burn the penis.
It will be necessary to remove the chastity device in order to clean it well, but that can be done when you have been to the toilet. Rinse the inside thoroughly or use Loving Joy Toy Cleaner (€6.88, kinky.ie), then remove excess moisture with a cotton bud before wearing again. Washing the area around the genitalia often is also important. To reduce discomfort and prevent sores, apply lotion to the testicles and around the ring of the cage or tube to avoid friction.