Anal douches are incredibly useful tools for fans of anal sex toys and anal sex. They work by cleansing the anus before penetration, ensuring that it’s as clean and hygienic as possible. Hygiene is paramount when it comes to anal play; the anal lining is delicate and the smallest of tears can result in an infection. So, eliminating any filth can reduce the chances of catching infections.
There are a variety of devices to choose from that come in a variety of shapes and for different experience levels, so there’s something for everyone.
Choosing an Anal Douche
It’s important to find a product that works for you. When you select your douche, you want something that is simple to use, easy to clean, and will last you a long time. An anal douche with an easy to squeeze bulb and a narrow tip like the Clean Stream Anal Douche Enema Bulb (€13.77, kinky.ie) can be inserted easily and provides the most comfort.
How to Use an Anal Douche
Give your douche an initial rinse before using, to make sure it’s clean. Any muck on the device will increase the chances of an infection.
Aim to use the douche around 45 minutes to an hour prior to intercourse. Go to the bathroom naturally, you want to flush your system as much as possible before using your douche.
Then, fill the bulb up with lukewarm water by removing the tip and running it directly under the tap or by squeezing the bulb and then immersing it in a container of water.
Check the water isn’t too hot, it will not only be extremely painful, but it could cause some serious damage to your body. There’s also no need to use soap or other cleaning products as they have the potential to irritate the rectal lining and cause infections.
Next, lubricate the end of the douche and the opening of the anus with an anal lube like Pjur Silicone Back Door Relaxing Anal Glide (€18.36, kinky.ie). Then gently slide the tip of the douche in so that it’s about an inch inside. We advise doing this over the toilet as the angle allows for an easy and comfortable insertion.
Once inserted, press the bulb of the douche. Pay attention to how your body reacts to the water before squeezing more into the body. Many people find taking things slowly throughout douching offers a better experience. Slowly remove the tip of the douche and hold the water inside until you feel the urge to expel it. Repeat this process one or two more times and you will ready for action.
Anal douching is generally safe, however if at any time you feel any discomfort or notice any bleeding, discharge, or changes in your normal bowel habits, be sure to seek medical attention immediately.
There may be nothing left in your anal cavity, but there is often a residual odour left around your hole. Not everyone will care about the next step, however if you and your partner are looking to give rimming a go, this step will ensure there’s no unpleasant scent or funny taste. Fill the sink with warm water and mix in a little Sextoy Cleaner (€8.03, kinky.ie). Then wipe around your hole thoroughly. You will feel clean and fresh – completely prepped and ready for fun!
Aftercare
As with any toy, once you’re done, give it a thorough rinse and store away in a dry and clean area. This will avoid bacteria build up and any nasty surprises. It’s important to make sure your toys dry thoroughly before storing them as any unwanted moisture increases the chances of mould, fungus, and bacteria build up.