Winter is coming, and you should be too.
Don’t let a dip in the temperature fool you – some of the steamiest and kinkiest sex can be had when it’s freezing cold. Here are some sex positions you can try in your sex hibernation that won’t make you freeze your actual arse off.
The Warm Winter Spoon
Spooning is lazy and comfortable, while maintaining the de facto deeper penetration of any from-behind positions and allowing both of you full use of your hands. It’s the ultimate position for skin-on-skin contact, but it runs the risk of leaving your girl exposed to the cold. Use your hands to warm her up – rub her breasts, thighs, and clit to heat things up a little. An added bonus: this can all be done from the comfort of your blanket – what more could you want?
The Sled Doggy Style
Think the cold stops dogs from getting it on? Think again!
This doggy style with a twist will keep you and your partner toastie warm. It’s all about maximising the skin-on-skin contact – so, find a position that allows you both to feel a bit more skin. When you and your partner are going doggy style, slowly flatten your bodies so that he’s essentially on top of you. This will increase the skin-on-skin surface area.
Freezing Mountain
A variation of above – build your mountain with a stack of pillows and blankets, and lean forward over it. Your partner will kneel behind you with their legs on the outside of yours as they penetrate you from behind.
The Northern Missionary
If you hadn’t guessed already, all of the positions listed are about maximising body contact with minimal effort. Wrapping your arms and legs around your partner while going missionary will reduce the gaps between the body, and will help warm the extremities!
Time to Take It Outside?
Colder climates can often complicate the easiest of things – it can restrict blood flow and make it difficult for him to stay hard, it can dry things out, and it can make penetration difficult and less pleasurable. This might sound far from sexy – but part of the fun is having to adapt and work together to create an exciting experience for you both.
Safety First
There are numerous ways and places to get a little frisky this winter, but if you intend to take it outdoors this winter – keep it fast and dirty. Dress as warm as you can and layer up. Aim to keep as many clothes on as possible. Women, think skirts or dresses with crotchless tights for easy access – we recommend Leg Avenue Crotchless Fishnet Pantyhose (€8.03, kinky.ie). Men can simply pull their penis through their fly without having to completely undress. Placing a fleece blanket or picnic blanket between you and the ground will also prevent you from getting too cold too quickly.
Experiment with Locations
The possibilities are endless. If you often go away for Christmas, make your outdoor sex adventure part of the trip. Jog, cross-country ski, hike or cycle to your chosen location. Then once your heart is racing have a quickie.
Not a winter sports fan? Hot tubs or a warm bath are equally exciting! The contrast of hot water and cold air against your skin will feel incredible. An outdoor fire pit will work just as well – lay a blanket nearby, or pull up some chairs and get your partner to straddle you.
If you or your partner prefer some privacy, but still want the thrill of getting it on outdoors; having sex in a car is the perfect compromise. Turn the heating off and feel the cool air tingling against your hot bodies – the windows will steam up in no time!